{"id":677,"date":"2021-03-17T23:58:24","date_gmt":"2021-03-17T22:58:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/?p=677"},"modified":"2023-09-18T22:54:04","modified_gmt":"2023-09-18T20:54:04","slug":"verloren-zwischen-fokus-und-allem-anderen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/english\/verloren-zwischen-fokus-und-allem-anderen\/","title":{"rendered":"5 | Home Stretch!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are days when everything is clear to me. It starts in the morning in the shower, when the water splashes on my head. Then I am completely present. In the shower, the most beautiful ideas come to my mind and also the clarity. It's as if everything else just washes off me. Do you experience that as well? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Und dann gibt es Tage, da verstreicht einfach alles. Erst ist es die Zeit, dann die Motivation, dann die Ziele. Ich surfe im Internet oder r\u00e4ume etwas auf, z. B. meine K\u00fcche. Ich wechsele das Zimmer und mir f\u00e4llt etwas Neues ein. das ich auch noch machen wollte. W\u00e4hrend ich das tue, habe ich andere Erinnerungen, die mir kommen, sie werden zu Einf\u00e4llen, die ich dann auch noch kurz mache. So verkettet sich eine kleine unwichtige Aufgabe mit der n\u00e4chsten und dann ist der Tag auch schon vorbei. Das f\u00fchlt sich dann so an, als h\u00e4tte ich nichts geschafft. Ich k\u00f6nnte mir den Tag dann sch\u00f6n reden mit &#8222;Hab ja viel geschafft&#8220;. Nur zielf\u00fchrend war das nicht. Ich habe mich eher abgehalten. Wie h\u00e4ltst du dich von deinen Zielen ab?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Are you perhaps also perfection-minded? Do you not want to show your projects until everything is perfect? Does the thought stop you, you're not an expert, after all, you could be considered an imposter? That is very closely interwoven with the thought: I'm not enough. - I'm very surprised at how many of us carry that thought with us. I used to assume that only I am not enough. Everyone else thinks they are just perfect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Perfectionism and the thought \"I am not enough\" are wrong. We, you and I are enough!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That we are enough is innate. Now it's up to us to learn what we can do to maintain our focus and achieve the goals we set for ourselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u00fcrzlich habe ich <a href=\"https:\/\/www.deangraziosi.com\/\">Dean Graziosi<\/a> sagen h\u00f6ren, &#8222;Wende dein Schiff in die raue See.&#8220; Er meint, es ist wichtig, sich nicht in den kleinen unwichtigen Aufgaben zu verstricken, sondern sich um das wahre Ziel zu k\u00fcmmern. Den Weg dahin beschreibt er mit der rauen See. Wir wissen nicht, was uns erwartet, aber wir malen uns aus, dass es ungem\u00fctlich sein k\u00f6nnte. Das ist dann der Moment, in dem unser Gehirn uns zur\u00fcck auf die Couch schicken m\u00f6chte. Was willst du auch auf der rauen See? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Behind the rough sea, behind the adventures that accompany us on the sea, the sun shines and the water sparkles beautifully. Do you have very clear what your goals are? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Our brain works like autopilot when we feed it with the right values. It helps if we write down our goals. It's best if we write with a pen on paper. Smart goals that are clearly outlined work best for our autopilot. We need to be specific about them. Please understand, even if our coordinates deviate marginally, we will still get eternally far away from our goals. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Denis_Waitley\">Dr. Denis Waitley<\/a> schreibt in seinem Buch &#8222;The Psychology of Winning&#8220;, dass wir klar haben sollen, wo unser Ziel liegt, wie lange es dauern wird, dorthin zu gelangen, warum wir dorthin wollen, was wir entlang der Strecke erleben m\u00f6chten und mit wem. Er empfiehlt, sich eine Reihe von kleinen Zielen zu stecken: t\u00e4glich, w\u00f6chentlich, monatlich und halbj\u00e4hrlich. Wichtig ist auch, dass wir leichte Ziele w\u00e4hlen, die zum gro\u00dfen Ganzen f\u00fchren. Jedes Mal, wenn wir ein Ziel erreichen, trainieren wir uns an, unsere Ziele immer erreichen zu wollen. Ziele erreichen, das tut gut! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To counteract weak moments, moments when, for example, I would clean my kitchen, or better yet, my garage, Waitley advises joining a circle of friends who support each other in doing whatever it takes to achieve one's goals. In this way, friends support each other in getting closer and closer to achieving their big goals. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Our brains like to be rewarded. Celebrate your intermediate results, celebrate reaching your goal! Create a certificate for yourself, treat yourself to a reward, a particularly nice dinner, a trip, or a rest in a spa. Enjoy your success and then start right back up again. 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