{"id":660,"date":"2021-03-15T01:11:07","date_gmt":"2021-03-15T00:11:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/?p=660"},"modified":"2023-09-18T22:53:48","modified_gmt":"2023-09-18T20:53:48","slug":"welche-beziehung-moechtest-du","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/english\/welche-beziehung-moechtest-du\/","title":{"rendered":"4 | What relationship would you like?"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Imagine the roles you want to play with pictures, feelings and words. Give yourself a preview of your coming attractions. What you see, is what you get. Who you feel, is who you are. It is not what you are that holds you back, it\u2019s what you think you are not. <\/p><cite><em>Dr. Denis Waitley<\/em><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-7387b849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Simple? Imagine who you want to be. Imagine it in pictures, in feelings, and in words. Visualize what you want to have, and where. Waitley isn't the only one promoting this approach. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tony Robbins tut es, er nennt es &#8222;Priming&#8220;. F\u00fcr das Priming ist es wichtig, dass du bereits wei\u00dft, was du haben m\u00f6chtest. Du stellst dir vor, welche Rolle du haben willst, welche Beziehung, an welchem Ort du sein willst, wie du dich f\u00fchlst, wenn du es geschafft hast und wie du dann mit dir sprichst. Im Priming versetzt du dich in einen sch\u00f6nen Zustand und visualisierst dann deinen Wunsch als erf\u00fcllt. In welcher Beziehung m\u00f6chtest du also leben?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What kind of partner do you desire?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Michael Neill also says this similarly and he got it from Syd Banks. The thoughts you have shape your feelings and your feelings become your actions. Neill calls Banks' \"aha!\" insight the formula for miracles. The formula is: mind + thought + consciousness = reality. Both say that if you want to create a new reality, such as a new relationship, a new love, all it takes is a new thought. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The question arises, if it is so simple, why are we all not in wonderful relationships? Are there too few partners? Maybe. I don't know. I do know, though, that I didn't know all that. I have found my partners so far because it happened. We met, got to know each other and fell in love. - That's been great. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Banks, Neill, Robbins and Waitley suggest taking charge. To dare life and to take on repsonsibility. Imagine what you want to experience and with whom. Then it is important to move towards it actively and according to plan. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is important to understand that we are what we feel, because our actions follow from this. So if it is really true  that we are holding us back or preventing ourselves from what we really want, because we think that this is not at us, then it is time to let go of this old thought and simply replace it with a beautiful new thought about ourselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let's just try it out. Let's think about beautiful, excellent relationships! And then, let's bring them to life!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/english\/uber-mich\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Karl-Goldstein-Amman.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6113\" srcset=\"https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Karl-Goldstein-Amman.jpg 200w, https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Karl-Goldstein-Amman-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Karl-Goldstein-Amman-12x12.jpg 12w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>Karl Goldstein<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"alignwide has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\"> Contact <\/h4>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>coaching@karlgoldstein.de<\/li><li>Phone +49 241 9126 8707<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"alignfull has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\"> Coaching for you?  <\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph translation-block\">At this point I recommend you take the online coaching program at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.digistore24.com\/content\/188925\/35087\/KGOLDSTEIN\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">PaarBalance<\/a> (only available in German).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:10px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.digistore24.com\/content\/188925\/35087\/KGOLDSTEIN\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"144\" src=\"https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/paarbalance-logo-r-500.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6327\" srcset=\"https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/paarbalance-logo-r-500.png 500w, https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/paarbalance-logo-r-500-300x86.png 300w, https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/paarbalance-logo-r-500-18x5.png 18w, https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/paarbalance-logo-r-500-230x66.png 230w, https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/paarbalance-logo-r-500-350x101.png 350w, https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/paarbalance-logo-r-500-480x138.png 480w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>Klicke f\u00fcr mehr PaarBalance.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The PaarBalance program was developed on the basis of the latest research findings on satisfaction and stability in partnerships.  <\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"shariff shariff-align-flex-start shariff-widget-align-flex-start\"><ul class=\"shariff-buttons theme-round orientation-horizontal buttonsize-medium\"><li class=\"shariff-button facebook shariff-nocustomcolor\" style=\"background-color:#4273c8\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fkarlgoldstein.de%2Fenglish%2Fwelche-beziehung-moechtest-du%2F\" title=\"Share on Facebook\" aria-label=\"Share on Facebook\" role=\"button\" rel=\"noreferrernoopener nofollow\" class=\"shariff-link\" style=\"; 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