{"id":5416,"date":"2021-06-12T00:44:30","date_gmt":"2021-06-11T22:44:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/?p=5416"},"modified":"2023-09-18T22:56:19","modified_gmt":"2023-09-18T20:56:19","slug":"entscheide-ersetze-verbessere-dich","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/karlgoldstein.de\/english\/entscheide-ersetze-verbessere-dich\/","title":{"rendered":"16 | Decide. Replace. Improve!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do you have bad habits? Would you like to get rid of them but don't know how to? Many of us believe that the longer we have a habit, the harder it is to break it. But this sentence is just a thought. It is not a fact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Take these 2 steps:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Simply decide that you want to change it now.<\/li><li>Then replace it with a better habit.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Make sure, you do not rethink your decision and stick to your new habit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ich hatte die schlechte Angewohnheit, mich selbst niederzumachen, wenn etwas nicht gut gelaufen ist. Jedes Mal, wenn etwas schief ging, sagte ich mir: &#8222;Ich bin so dumm!&#8220;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nachdem ich einen TED-Vortrag \u00fcber das \u00c4ndern von Gewohnheiten geh\u00f6rt hatte, beschloss ich, meine ebenfalls zu \u00e4ndern. Ich ersetzte &#8222;Ich bin so dumm!&#8220; durch &#8222;Ich kann es besser!&#8220;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I love that sentence! It is a motivator. I motivate myself to accept failure as part of the process of getting better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Um mir dabei zu helfen, meine alte Gewohnheit zu verdr\u00e4ngen, begann ich, ein Gummiarmband zu tragen. Jedes Mal, wenn ich mich bei der alten Gewohnheit erwischte, zog ich das Armband zur\u00fcck und lie\u00df es schnappen. Diese Unterbrechung half mir, meinen neuen Satz &#8222;Ich kann es besser!&#8220; zu verankern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And yes, I can do better. I can do better in every moment. You can do that too. 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