Deep-six doubts and alternatives

What causes relationships to fail? Until now, I have assumed that relationships fail because people have grown apart or because they have been rejected. Sometimes I am stunned by how long some couples can be together. I have not been able to do that. - What's your take on this?

The Messy Middle

There is no overnight success. Yet often blogs don't show the complete journey that lead up to the successful breakthrough. Growing into different roles in life is messy. I blog about all elements of my transformation: the beginnings, the messy middle and the success. Perhaps my messy middle can take the edge of yours a bit.

Letting go of pressure

You could compare it to your itinerary for your summer holidays. Say you would like to travel from your home to Marseille in southern France. You know your goal is to relax at the beach, read some good books and enjoy the French red wine and atmosphere. Same works for your long-term goals: With the right navigation you can reach your goals.

Mind Body Painting

You can create a work of art that is a guide to your goals and dreams. It can show you the people who support you and make you feel good. It can point out what you better pay attention to in order to avoid setbacks. It reminds you of your strengths, values and roots! Awaken the artist in you!

Poke the Bear

What if the resistance in us was a full-grown brown bear? Would you want to poke the bear? Or would you do everything you could to keep it happy, seem harmless, and not pressure you? Probably the latter. There are good reasons though for provoking the resistance in you ...